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On my recent trip to New York I paid tribute by visiting the ground zero memorial.

Walking around the memorial reinforced to me how the world unfortunately is far from pure and in desperate need of more peace as there are a lot of negative forces still amongst us.

As individuals we need to start having peace within and compassion for others as opposed to self.

Peace starts within each one of us, when we have inner peace, we can be at peace with those around us.

We have a moral responsibility to help avert suffering which comes from war, violence and terror. I believe the way to genuine world peace is inner peace, and the foundation of that is a sense of understanding and respect for each other as human beings whilst living our own individual spiritual journeys.

We must find peaceful and non-violent ways for truth and freedom, to be able to develop successfully as people emerge from oppression and I believe this will be found through a spiritual understanding.

May all people who have been killed or affected by war, terror and violence be comforted by love and light always.

You are amazing, remember that.

 

Ira

 

As a professional psychic, I see on a daily basis what is troubling everyday society and what is most troubling my clients.

What I write about I feel needs to be expressed, as to help you clear your mind and live a more positive life.

I see all to often how run down people are getting because of others. Whether by their partners, colleagues, family or friends.

You must learn that you cannot always count on others respecting your feelings. Even if you respect theirs.

Being a good person doesn’t guarantee that others will be good people to.

You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person. As for others you can only choose to accept them or walk away.

When people make you feel unwanted, don’t leave to make them feel sad or guilty, they won’t. Leave because you no longer have a reason to stay. Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. This is a lesson that needs to be learnt. What’s meant to be will end up good and what’s not – won’t.

Love is worth fighting for, don’t get me wrong, but sometimes you can’t be the only one fighting. At times people need to fight for you. If they don’t, you just have to move on and realise what you gave them was more then they were willing to give you and more then they deserve.

You are amazing, remember that.

 

 

I always enjoy this time of year as it gives us all an opportunity to let go of what was, and have faith in what will be for the year ahead.

Remember to release all things from the past year that has caused any negative attachment. Free yourself from negativity and start to take control of your journey. Choose who or what you want surrounding you for this year ahead. It is important to prepare yourself by taking time to write down new goals and adventures you feel you want to achieve over this coming new year, and welcome these new changes, new lessons and new adventures, this year one of your new goals should be to evolve spiritually and to try new things you haven’t been able to in the past.

I am already seeing through reading my clients the positive change that surrounds the air.

Utilise any down time you have this early in the year to meditate and listen to your intuition so you may write down and welcome new opportunities to grow emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

Always remember to be present in the moment with a positive mind and a knowing that whatever life does throw at you, that you are strong enough to get through it.

Release all expectations from your life this year as this will eliminate fear, and take every opportunity that comes your way that feels right to your intuition to grow and evolve and may 2015 be the start of a new positive and driven you.

 

 

 

As a professional psychic I regularly am asked the question, what it is I feel people should be doing with their lives or what should be introduced to their life to make them happier?

When looking for new change or direction, the only person who can answer these questions of who will inspire you, motivate you, support you, keep you focused, someone who will love you, cherish you and make you happy is staring at you in the mirror.

Always remember you are always in control of your life and your decisions. If you are wanting new change in your life then my guidance is to take some time out to meditate and listen within. If you are new to meditation and find it difficult at first, then I suggest finding a quiet space where you will not be distracted, and write down a few personal questions that only you can answer.

Start with what do I want to achieve this year?

How am I going to achieve this?

Who am I as a person?

Do I like who I am? If not why not?

Ditch those I cants, dump those why me’s, drop those if only’s, then listen within.

Hear that?

It’s the voice of I can I will.

Go forth with that and continue to evolve with a positive and peaceful mind and continue to take control and grow.

There is no better feeling than living a life of peace, love and positivity and knowing that you are in control of it.

Become a pioneer of the future.

You are amazing, remember that.

 

 

 

Fear … so many of us are crippled by it and I see all to often people not living the life they should be due to it.

What we must remember is fear like pain and many other negative emotions are optional.

 

As the year now builds momentum, I want to share with you a thought process that will help you understand and realise deeply that the present moment is all you ever have and that the only limits you have are the limits you believe.

 

In life all we ever have is the present moment, you need to be present in every moment with the understanding that you are strong enough to get through whatever life throws at you as life will never put you through more than you can handle.

 

The next step is to eliminate all expectations from every avenue of your life, as expectations are what create fear.

 

Pause for a brief moment and reflect on your age and how much life has already thrown at you and how you have come through every life experience wiser, stronger and more evolved.

 

See every test in our life makes us bitter or better, every problem comes to break us or make us.

The choice is ours whether we become victim or victor.

 

From this moment forward start to live your life present in every moment knowing you are strong enough to get through whatever life throws at you. Eliminate all expectations as this will eliminate fear and start to take every opportunity that comes your way that feels right to your intuition so you may grow and evolve this life.

 

Fear is nothing more than an obstacle that stands in the way of progress. In overcoming our fears, we can move forward, stronger and wiser within ourselves.

 

Be a Warrior not a Worrier.

 

You are amazing, remember that.

 

 

Love …

Each time this year the air around us heavily starts to fill with love as Valentines Day is celebrated.

For those of you who feel alone this time of year I want to share with you some spiritual guidance that will help you control this emotion and give a spiritual understanding of why you may not be in a relationship at this stage of your journey.

What we must remember for those who are single is that being single isn’t always a time to look for love or feel alone. Use that time to work on you and grow as an individual. Always see the positive in being alone as this is the time where you have no distractions in life to work on your physical health, spiritual being, financial affairs and professional life to name but a few. Most times your personal spirit guides will not let someone enter your life until you grow in some of these areas, as they will not want you to be distracted.

When someone does cross paths with you this life then always remember this –

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty; to provide you with guidance and support; to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

If you are looking for love then remember this, always follow your intuition and go with a strong connection and remember no beauty shines brighter than that of a good heart and in the end we wont remember the most beautiful face and body, we will remember the most beautiful heart and soul.

Because when that right person walks into your life or is already in your life, just remember it’s never to late to live happily ever after.

Love and light always,

Ira